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The Successful Wife

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MRS MARTHA DE PURENEZ DIED AT THE AGE OF 104. SHE HAD SPENT 82 YEARS IN MARRIAGE, AND SHE SAID THIS.
"I know that young ladies will never agree with me, but whoever will implement this shall be the happiest of all and shall make a nice home; unless otherwise."
ITEMS 1.  The husband is always right
2.  The husband is always the master of the family even if he has no job and NO MONEY
3.  The wife must ask for permission from the husband before going to bed if the husband isn't yet in bed, as well as before turning her face away from him on the bed. The husband is still the master and has full control on all the operations even in bed
4.  If there is a quarrel with the husband and then a visitor comes, the wife should smile as if nothing happened
5. Anytime the wife thinks she is right in a matter, she should refer herself to Article number 1
6.   A good wife must go to bed in her nightdress with no panties or bra, (except during your monthly flow, which he must know about)…

How Do I Cuddle Without Inviting Sex

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According to Steve Pavlina, One question that a few women asked me essentially boils down to this:
I really love cuddling, but I have a hard time inviting guys to cuddle with me because they might think I’m inviting them to have sex with me, and sometimes I just want to cuddle. How can I ask for cuddling and not have a guy think I’m offering something sexual?
Believe it or not, this can be an issue for men too. Let’s ponder this situation from some different perspectives since the same issue can have multiple causes. 
Are You Communicating Clearly? When it comes to discussing emotional matters, many people are notoriously poor communicators. They express themselves in such vague and fuzzy ways that it’s no wonder they’re frequently misunderstood. They drop confusing hints instead of being forthright and direct. They insinuate instead of invite. If you want to improve your results in this area, first get comfortable with communicating clearly and directly. 
In fact, even if you’re not …

Lizette Borreli's 'Increasing Intimacy Without Sex'

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Finding that special someone to date and falling in love is the easy part; keeping a happy and healthy relationship is the hard part. Busy schedules, surprise visits from (annoying) family members, unpaid bills, and poor communication can lead to frustration and doubts, such as: Why are we so disconnected? Shouldn't true love be easy? Are we meant to be? Relationships are constantly growing and shifting, but couples can take these six steps that will help them foster intimacy — without sex.
Self-Disclosure And Eye Contact
Partners who are more open with one another by divulging their feelings are able to develop an instant bond. It may feel risky to be vulnerable or to reveal hidden parts of ourselves, but deep bonds can be established by asking a particular set of questions. A study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology described participants' reactions after asking each other questions such as:
For what in your life do you feel most grateful? What …

Enjoying Greater Intimacy In Your Marriage

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When a husband and wife achieve true intimacy, of course, they will naturally desire to share their romantic feelings at the deepest level. By God's design, one of the most pleasurable ways for couples to express their profound love and appreciation is through His gift of sexual intimacy.
The Art of Making Love Some would say that "having sex" and "making love" are one and the same, but there's an important distinction between the two. The physical act of intercourse can be accomplished by any appropriately matched members of the animal kingdom. But the art of making love, as intended by God, is a much more meaningful and complex experience. It is physical, emotional, and spiritual. In marriage we should settle for nothing less than a sexual relationship that is expressed not only body to body, but also heart to heart and soul to soul. This intimate union, two becoming "one flesh," is both the symbol and fruit of genuine, heartfelt romantic love b…

Kari Jobe: ‘Don’t Get So Caught Up In The Idea Of Marriage’

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Worship artists’ Kari Jobe and Cody Carnes have been wonderfully blessed with a loving marriage. Jobe even described her marriage to Carnes as “a taste of heaven.” These two have waited, saved, and have sacrificed to ensure that this day, this dream will become a reality.

Jobe posted on her Facebook page an advice for people searching for a spouse that God has someone special intended for them and that they should not be so much in a rush to find someone to be with that they miss out on God’s wonderful plan for them.

“If there is one message I’d like to relay to those who are still searching for a spouse, it would be this: don’t allow yourself to get so caught up in the idea of marriage that you miss the voice of the Holy Spirit,” she said.

Carnes and Jobe built their relationship around God, and even during their wedding, they made time to worship Him. “It was the strongest presence of God I have ever felt,” the singer described. “Getting married made me think of how much God longs …

Purity Is Not Just About Abstaining From Sex. What Else Is It Then?

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As Christians, we have always been encouraged to walk in purity all the time. To many, purity is saying no to sex before marriage. But there is a lot more to it than that. Below are three truths about purity that every Christian should take to heart:


Purity is from Jesus.

Left on our own, our lives will always be stained with sin. Purity is not in our earthly nature that is why Jesus had to bridge the gap for us by cleansing us and giving us a new identity. The old has gone and the new has come. When we accepted Jesus as our personal Lord and Savior, our hearts regenerated and we were made into a new creation! Jesus deposited his holiness and purity into our new identities. (see 2 Corinthians 5:17)


Purity is not just abstaining from sex; it is a heart issue.

Jesus said in Matthew 5:8 (NLT), “God blesses those whose hearts are pure, for they will see God.”

While it is true that not having sexual relations outside the boundaries of marriage is good and should always be considered and emb…

How Can Two People Who Are So Dissimilar Stay Together

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How did God nurture their relationship? Joanna always played it safe. She was the quiet one in school who was content to live in the background. She liked comfort and predictability.

Then she met Chip.

Chip was everything Joanna wasn’t: risky, dangerous, care-free, and an extreme dreamer.

Completely opposite. Completely different. Completely in love. Despite their differences, their chemistry has made their show — HGTV’s “Fixer Upper” — cable’s top program. So what keeps them together? How can two people who are so dissimilar stay together in an era where many call it quits because they’re just “different people”? WATCH THIS by clicking on the image below...


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