The Beauty of Love for the Man and the Woman- Worth the Read

Reasons to Love me and why I should Love you

Love me for who I am and Love me for who I am not
Love me for what I do and Love me b'cos of my future
Love me when I am not me and Love me as you love yourself
Love me cos am made in the express image of God

Love me more when I am in pain (sick, broken, in a negative situation of love).
Pull someone out of his/her crisis or/and go through with them, then after tell them how stupid they have been in a comforting manner. That is Love. Not rather rebuking them in their worse times all in the name of Love. 1 Samuel 1:8, Then said Elkanah her husband to her, Hannah, "why weepest thou and why eatest thou not and why is thy heart grieved, am not I better to thee than ten sons?"

Love me more when I don't live to your expectation.
1 Samuel 18:20, And Michal Saul's daughter loved David: and they told Saul, and the thing pleased him. Would you love him or her if she/his danced till "her/his" garment falls off? Would you love each other when you strip yourselves before God and man and be seen as you [always] are without pretense?

Love me more when I do not do right.
Aha! That's the challenging aspect. You can stay with a person for 5 years and there are certain things about them that they will never badge on or part with as much as you might not like it and vice versa. So learn to over look a lot about your partner. He/she put up that behavior and kept it for about 18 years [plus] of their lives, 2 years of staying with them and trying to change that behavior is almost impossible without God. 1 Peter  4:8 And above all things have fervent charity among yourselves: for charity shall cover the multitude of sins.

Lets end on this note. Be careful what words you use on whoever you are dating or married to. They will take and swallow every pill but may not tolerate insults such 'you are foolish', 'stupid' and other harsh words. They may forgive you but keep it in their banks and will keep reminding you anytime you get them hurt or to the place of remembrance.

May God grant us the grace to love and even love our partners [more] in the fear of God.

For the promotion of the Gospel of Jesus Christ [GreaterLOVE/Godwin Dumeh]


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